Thus far in this series about projectizing , a deeper form of perfectionism, showing up in a tendency to anxiously fix ourselves , we discussed how important it is to refrain from making ourselves a project to be fixed or a problem to solve, rather than a person worthy of love and compassion. We also explored Sarah’s story , a woman desiring marriage and how she makes herself a project, as we dive deep into her story of shame around her singleness and confusion around her