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The Cuckoo Syndrome Quiz



If you….

  • Feel internal pressure to do all things well. 

  • Tend to neglect your needs to please others and search for validation.

  • Continually attract toxic or one-sided relationships leaving you drained. 

  • Want to build a life that is unashamedly true to who you are and what you want.


Then…this is the time to reclaim your JOY, ENERGY, AND TIME so you can live each day with peace and purpose!


My new book The Cuckoo Syndrome: The Secret to Breaking Free from Unhealthy Relationships, Toxic Thinking, and Self-Sabotaging Behavior is available everywhere books are sold.

Have you wondered if something is missing and feels off, yet you can’t quite put your finger on it? Chances are you have a cuckoo in your life, your “nest.” Whether you are stuck in a continuous cycle of carrying the emotional weight of your relationships or you feel empty and overwhelmed— what you believe is holding you back or getting in your way is most likely not what you think it is.


The Cuckoo Syndrome is for the countless people who are suffering from a hidden pain and heartache destructively affecting their careers, ministry, and their most intimate relationships.


Cuckoo birds are nature’s infamous deceivers and takers. They are imposters who mimic who you are and what you want. Unbeknownst to most, the human heart is hosting a “cuckoo”, an invisible enemy, that is creating unnecessary suffering by subtly draining our energy, consuming our time, and stealing our joy. I’ve witnessed thousands of people who display this pattern. 


What We Can Name, We Can Heal.


And now that is has a name, healing can begin. With over a decade of clinical experience sitting with the precious souls of my clients, I have concluded that we ALL experience The Cuckoo Syndrome. Your cuckoo could be an unhealthy relationship with a family member, romantic partner, friend, and colleague or a self-inflicted cuckoo – behaviors such as perfectionism, addictions, chronic busyness, or seeking worth and value from our work, to name a few.


With a remarkable rise in mental health challenges, people are struggling as they come face-to-face with brokenness as they navigate tough inner battles leaving them feeling confused, empty, and stuck. People are living a more isolated, burned out, and anxious existence. Yet I promise you…freedom is possible!


I’d be honored to have you join me and many others on the journey of discovering how to live cuckoo-free. Now is the time to exchange a counterfeit purpose for your God-given purpose and to exchange an imposter that has held you captive, for the truth that sets you free.



It’s Time to Take Your Life Back!


Do you have a “cuckoo” in your life? If you are unsure if you are suffering from The Cuckoo Syndrome, the following quiz will help you identify whether you are hosting a The Relationship Cuckoo, The Self-Inflicted Cuckoo, or a The Combination Cuckoo.

Copyright notice: The Cuckoo Syndrome Quiz is copyrighted material and may not be copied or used without permission. The contents of this website and the quiz it contains are not meant to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of any condition.

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